I’ve liked this guy for a really long time now. I’ve been way too scared to say anything to him. I’ve hinted around about it a few times. He teases me-like I like to read & I make good grades, & he calls me a nerd, but not in a mean way. He’s stuck ice down my shirt before (don’t think anything dirty, people!), & we’ve thrown ice at each other before. He’s punched me on the arm & that kind of thing, but it was never in a mean way either. I might have caught him looking at me a few times, but we always look away. I have my doubts though. Since I’ve liked him, he’s had a GF, but she moved far away to go to school. My bff met him, & we hung out w/ each other. My bff tried to get info for me, but she wasn’t very successful. She’s only met him once or twice & they never talk. We’re all friends on eachother’s myspaces, & I know it’s lame to base anything off this, but my friend somehow made it on his top. I’m nowhere on there. But, I still have other doubts. By the way, he’s 19, I’m 17.
oh, firstly i dont think that the age is anything to worry about and it does sound like you are great friends.What i would worry about are the arm punches and the name calling, although they are all in great fun, would you really call the girl you liked a nerd? Whist guys do poke gently fun at the girls they like the names are often quickly followed by a hug and an "im only joking" Has he done this to you? You say you through ice and stuff at each other and he put ice cream on the front of your top, to me that sounds more of a friends thing.
My question would be does he know that you like him? I mean have you told him?
The looks could be a friendly thing and just because a guy looks at a girl it doesn’t mean that they like her.
From what i hear, although sorry to say it, it does sound an awful lot more like a mate thing that a relationship in the making. I’m sorry.
But you do sound to be good mates and sometimes that’s better anyways.
Also because your maybe not in his top friends and she is, if he only met her once then why would she be above you? I think that they may talk a little more than they tell you, possibly to spare your feelings, or that he may have a crush on her.
I wouldn’t however read too much into that.
I think that if this guy is lucky enough to have your feelings then he should realise that and ask you out, but if he doesn’t then he isn’t worth you. Ask yourself is this guy worth your heartache? if not, then you have the answer. I mean is he someone who you truely adore and would want to get hurt for?
I think you could do far better, you dont need his confused signals.
Hope it all works out
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doubt it. try looking a 15 year old. they look like a little kid don’t they. allthough he might be a pedofile, lol
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um i would put u on my top if i liked u and wanted to go out with u but maybe hes not to sure about it so jus help him out and let him know and youll be find
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I think he just wants to be friends.
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I went through the same exact thing almost. I really liked this guy and we would horseplay around and I really felt like he was the one. Come to find out to him it was just something to stay occupied and we didn’t talk any more. The thing about my space is that people take it almost too seriously. You cant judge how much a person likes someone by their "top". I say if you still have a feeling as if your not the only girl he’s really interested to find someone that does. I know it won’t be easy seeing how obviously the guy makes you happy and you have feelings. Just know that no one is worth being just being someone to kill time with.
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oh, firstly i dont think that the age is anything to worry about and it does sound like you are great friends.What i would worry about are the arm punches and the name calling, although they are all in great fun, would you really call the girl you liked a nerd? Whist guys do poke gently fun at the girls they like the names are often quickly followed by a hug and an "im only joking" Has he done this to you? You say you through ice and stuff at each other and he put ice cream on the front of your top, to me that sounds more of a friends thing.
My question would be does he know that you like him? I mean have you told him?
The looks could be a friendly thing and just because a guy looks at a girl it doesn’t mean that they like her.
From what i hear, although sorry to say it, it does sound an awful lot more like a mate thing that a relationship in the making. I’m sorry.
But you do sound to be good mates and sometimes that’s better anyways.
Also because your maybe not in his top friends and she is, if he only met her once then why would she be above you? I think that they may talk a little more than they tell you, possibly to spare your feelings, or that he may have a crush on her.
I wouldn’t however read too much into that.
I think that if this guy is lucky enough to have your feelings then he should realise that and ask you out, but if he doesn’t then he isn’t worth you. Ask yourself is this guy worth your heartache? if not, then you have the answer. I mean is he someone who you truely adore and would want to get hurt for?
I think you could do far better, you dont need his confused signals.
Hope it all works out
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I think he himself is not sure whether he loves you or likes you, wait for some time i think he will come up to you and tell you whether he loves you or not, and he really doesn’t want to lose you as a friend so may be he might take some time to think about it.
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