Alright well I’m 14 and my name’s Tiffany. I’m wondering about the type of personality guys like. I’m 5’5” and I have an athletic build to me, but I’m certainly not overweight. I have medium-length dirty-blonde hair and green eyes; don’t have glasses or braces, and I’m caucasion. (34-B breasts if that matters lol)
I’m shy and guys know I’m smart yet I really don’t act like a nerd. I think I’m easy to talk to. I can also be kinda perverted.
So, do guys mind when girls are perverted (like, find some statements sexual, or laugh at crude things)?
And do guys like shy girls, or obnoxious and out-going girls better?
One last thing. I love to play soccer, tennis, and volleyball and I’m really athletic. Is that bad if I am really athletic? I don’t want to seem intimidating..I often seem like I am..
Okay I apologize for asking it like that..I understand that guys differ and the type of girl they’re attracted to depends on the guy. I’m not going to change a lot just for a guy, and yeah, I know I’m 14. And yes I will always choose to be athletic because I am good at being athletic and I like being athletic. Once again, I know that every guy varies, so I’m sorry I put it that way. I hate when guys do that to girls, so…yeah. Also, I’m not going to change my plans I’ve made for my future and career. Thanks for all the amusing and interesting responses so far!!
The "just be yourself" answer is right, I think, but perhaps I can expand upon it a little. There are billions of guys in this world with different personalities attracted to different personalities (sometimes opposite from their own, sometimes similar)… some boring guys will like "perverted" girls, some will be perverts, etc. Some extroverts like shy girls, etc., and sometimes it’s caprice that works, or fate — people meet in the strangest ways, and there’s sometimes "love at first sight" and sometimes people grown on one another.
If you’re not "yourself," you might attract someone to… not yourself! What I mean is that if you decide (or someone talks you into deciding) not to laugh at crude things, you’re suppressing your laughter and the guy (if he is fooled) is liking someone who is really not "you." He may find the "real" you later and not like you any longer. There’s not much reason to be liked for what you’re not. We all do unreasonable things, of course (which isn’t necessarily bad — people have moods and masks and many change — or, really, reveal themselves more — when they get closer to someone), but being confident in yourself makes you more attractive, except to people who are attracted to vulnerability… vulnerability is attractive to not a few guys, but it’s not a good basis for most relationships and guys who like it are not rarely predatory.
So — just be yourself!
guys like all girls ……… haha
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You are 14..
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You have a cool name.
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You’d be a great lay.
Just be yourself hon. There’s someone out there for everyone.
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you’re over analyzing the situation. playing sports is a good thing unless its the whole life. at your age it’s good to be perverted.
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Well im my opinion Guys do like girls with a sence of humor so yes to the pervertedness
and on the personallity, just be yourself and if he doesnt like you for yourself he’s not right for you
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you cant put a personality into pigeon holes and expect everyone to like the same things —- we are all different and even people that have some of the same character traits as you do would not be seem the same by the same guy —- and please check out the defintion of perverted and you will find there are very few perverts —- there are some people (male and female) that have a great imagination and most people laugh at crude jokes if nothing else —- in other words no one can really tell you they like such and such they have to talk to them get to know them and then see if they want to know them better —- you will find these things out as you get older and have more experience at life —– best wishes
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I agree with the first comment made… Guys just like girls for any given reason. I’m perverted, Laugh ALL the time and am really outgoing… and several guys have complimented me on those qualities a lot.
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You don’t like all the same qualities in guys that some of your teammates like, so what makes you think all guys like the same things about girls? Stop worrying about what guys like. Just be the best Tiffany you know how to be, and the guys who are attracted to you (as opposed to who you pretend to be) will come around. If you pretend to be something you’re not, you’ll only attract guys who wouldn’t necessarily want to be with the real you, and where would that kind of relationship go?
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Develop ur individuality
and by the way u sound as if u r a hen or sheep or pig in a store which r grown to satisfy the customer,as per th requirement
u r born unique be so
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Your question cannot be answered because there are so many kinds of guys and they all like different things.
Speaking only for myself, while a girl with a sense of humor is GOOD, I don’t like girls who are "perverted" in public. Perversion should be reserved for when you are alone together in dark places or bedrooms.
Athletic is fine. I like a girl I can play-wrestle with without worrying about breaking her.
I do not like shy OR obnoxious girls. I like friendly girls.
I really like smart girls, so at least you have that going for you. Don’t play dumb. Unless you want to attract dumb guys. If you want a high-quality guy, you should be a high-quality girl. Be friendly, talk to guys who interest you even if they haven’t noticed you yet.
And don’t pick one yet. It’s WAY too soon.
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guys only like girls who put out. i can’t understand why girls keep wasting their time worrying about whether or not a guy likes them when there are so many other interesting things to do out there. the only thing that is worth your time and money is your education, career, and retirement. a hobby is also something worth pursuing.
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You seem like the chick I would like to meet (:
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The "just be yourself" answer is right, I think, but perhaps I can expand upon it a little. There are billions of guys in this world with different personalities attracted to different personalities (sometimes opposite from their own, sometimes similar)… some boring guys will like "perverted" girls, some will be perverts, etc. Some extroverts like shy girls, etc., and sometimes it’s caprice that works, or fate — people meet in the strangest ways, and there’s sometimes "love at first sight" and sometimes people grown on one another.
If you’re not "yourself," you might attract someone to… not yourself! What I mean is that if you decide (or someone talks you into deciding) not to laugh at crude things, you’re suppressing your laughter and the guy (if he is fooled) is liking someone who is really not "you." He may find the "real" you later and not like you any longer. There’s not much reason to be liked for what you’re not. We all do unreasonable things, of course (which isn’t necessarily bad — people have moods and masks and many change — or, really, reveal themselves more — when they get closer to someone), but being confident in yourself makes you more attractive, except to people who are attracted to vulnerability… vulnerability is attractive to not a few guys, but it’s not a good basis for most relationships and guys who like it are not rarely predatory.
So — just be yourself!
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