I’ve got a pretty face, to be honest. But i don’t think i’m faminine enough. I mean I like wearing sport shoues, jeans, big bags. and to be honest, i spend very little time on caring of my appearance. I study hard, (i’m not a nerd) and have many friends! i mean i’m not an ugly nerd who’s sitting in the corner in dirty clothes with dirty hair. No! i mean, I hardly ever do make-up. I was trying to make it a habitual action, but all the time i was thinking i’m looking unnatural. (even when there was little of it). I have much clothes that i don’t wear preferring to wear several pull overs and shirts. at the same time there’s no certain style.. I mean, i have shoes with high heels, that i wear (almost never), skirts etc. but i don’t wear it! i don’t know what to do… i know men prefer women who dress girly…
Being feminine is all about being a woman. And being a woman is NOT defined by make up and heels!!! You already have the woman part so, what are you really worried about? Relax! Stop putting pressure on yourself to look like what someone else deems to be feminine! True femininity exists when a woman is comfortable with herself. So, if you are not comfortable in skirts, don’t wear them! If you think make up makes you look fake, it probably does! Try finding things that make you feel comfortable. If that is jeans and chapstick then so be it! Sometimes all you need to feel extra special is some sexy underwear under your jeans and pullovers that makes you feel feminine! Whatever it is, you have to find the thing that works for you; that makes you feel good as a woman. Not what someone else says is girly and feminine! Ask yourself, what makes ME feel feminine? Remember, the way you feel on the inside is the way you appear on the outside. And when you feel feminine, you are feminine!
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Men prefer women who can spell…..
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you have no self esteem, thats all.
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Don’t try so hard…be yourself.
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Be yourself. You will be more feminine when u a comfortable in your skin.
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girl dont worry about it. I am the same way. I cant speak for all guys, but i can say that the men i am in contact with might like to look at the girly girls, but they prefer to be with a more down to earth girl.
i am 24, i wear jeans almost everyday. jeans and cute t shirts with timberlands everyday and i get hit on a minimum of 3x every day!
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sometimes making up ur face with all that stuff that most girls wear!isn’t approved or doesn’t make u look like urself. me! i just get some lip gloss make (sure its kinda glossy)evev if it cost 2.99, then a pair of jeans and a nice top im good to go and look perfect. it don’t take a lot. look at my avatar. thats exactually how i look ,dress,and style myself. ur lady like u just don’t know it yet!
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okay well for one week wear skirts,heels and have your girly friends help out with the outfits.
if you feel uncomfortable,stop
if not, continue with these steps:
honestly you and your sitution remind me of cady from mean girls[lindsay lohan]
for makeup, try a black or brown mascara,some eyeliner,cream white sparkly eyeshadow,bronzer on the apples of cheeks and some pink lip gloss. get up from your sisters,freinds and mothers if you dont know how to apply this.
for hair, either straighten and add a defrizzer or curl hair to get sexy waves.
try getting a more feminine haircut. for long hair get sideswept bangs,side bangs, or long angled layers. for mid length try layers or angles. for short hair,get bangs and grow hair out.
heres some pics from mean girls. ill tell you when they should be worn:
see lindsay lohans outfit? perfect for girly not not over-the top. pair this outfit with flats:
http://www.hollywoodjesus.com/movie/mean_girls/02.jpg
pretty and feminine:
http://thecia.com.au/reviews/m/images/mean-girls-3.jpg
lindsay lohans outfit is TOO CUTE:
http://www.reelingreviews.com/meangirlspic.jpg
same pic,but karen’s[the girl in the black] is verypretty:
http://www.reelingreviews.com/meangirlspic.jpg
the pink outfit is wayyy cuter:
http://www.movieswallpapers.org/pictures/0/78/thumb/200_Mean%20Girls-000.jpg
wear reginas[the one in the black leather skirt] for a sexy,edgy,girly feel:
http://www.femail.com.au/img/mean_girls_movie.jpg
wear lindsay’s for a cute and laidback feel:
http://movies.apple.com/trailers/paramount/mean_girls/images/main_02.jpg
best fro last!wear lindsays for the extreme hardcore sexy,strong, and feminine outfit EVER[wear with heels!]:
http://www.filmexpress.it/images/AltreImmagini/MeanGirls1.jpg
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Being feminine is all about being a woman. And being a woman is NOT defined by make up and heels!!! You already have the woman part so, what are you really worried about? Relax! Stop putting pressure on yourself to look like what someone else deems to be feminine! True femininity exists when a woman is comfortable with herself. So, if you are not comfortable in skirts, don’t wear them! If you think make up makes you look fake, it probably does! Try finding things that make you feel comfortable. If that is jeans and chapstick then so be it! Sometimes all you need to feel extra special is some sexy underwear under your jeans and pullovers that makes you feel feminine! Whatever it is, you have to find the thing that works for you; that makes you feel good as a woman. Not what someone else says is girly and feminine! Ask yourself, what makes ME feel feminine? Remember, the way you feel on the inside is the way you appear on the outside. And when you feel feminine, you are feminine!
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