im the girl who sticks up for everyone but certain things really make me self concious. like when sumone says im a nerd and thats y they wouldnt date me, or when my friend says i need to try harder, or when sumone calls me and my friends the dirty dike group… so not cool to hear…
You have to stop worrying so much about what other people think of you! Who cares what "they" say! You need to have confidence in yourself, know who you are, and embrace it! If your friends tell you something, try not to take it negatively…they are probably just trying to help. As for the others, calling you names…who cares what they think?! Are you a good person? Are you smart? and kind? and generous? honest? a good friend?…..yes, you are. So don’t let anyone ever make you feel bad about yourself. They aren’t worth it. You let them "win", by feeling badly about yourself. That’s what they WANT you to do. And they are going to continue to do it when they see you sad every time they make fun of you. Blow them off….ignore it. They are part of your life for such a short time, you’ll probably never know them again, anyway. You want someone like that to ruin your self confidence; your life? Ha! Don’t give them the pleasure! They don’t deserve it!
Usually, the people who bully others, make fun & tease others, are insecure themselves, and that’s what they need to do in order to feel good about themselves.
You just be proud of who you are.
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It’s just a decision that you have to make – to not care what other people say. Be happy with yourself, and no one else matters. Especially if someone says they won’t date you because you’re a nerd – how shallow and lame is that? If that’s the reason they give, they weren’t worth dating anyway!
It’s not always easy, but it’s something you gotta set your mind to and stick with. If someone criticizes me I’ll take it into consideration, but mostly I’m happy with myself and won’t change for anyone! My family and friends love me the way I am, and they’re the most important people in my life – why would I want to be any different?
I’m me and I love it! If you don’t, that’s your problem, not mine!
Hope this helps!
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Join a group or class not associated with school. That way no one knows your reputation/ group association and you can try to be more outgoing. Try something challenging like a martial arts class. That will hopefully build up your confidence and you’ll meet some new friends who like you for who you are.
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You have to stop worrying so much about what other people think of you! Who cares what "they" say! You need to have confidence in yourself, know who you are, and embrace it! If your friends tell you something, try not to take it negatively…they are probably just trying to help. As for the others, calling you names…who cares what they think?! Are you a good person? Are you smart? and kind? and generous? honest? a good friend?…..yes, you are. So don’t let anyone ever make you feel bad about yourself. They aren’t worth it. You let them "win", by feeling badly about yourself. That’s what they WANT you to do. And they are going to continue to do it when they see you sad every time they make fun of you. Blow them off….ignore it. They are part of your life for such a short time, you’ll probably never know them again, anyway. You want someone like that to ruin your self confidence; your life? Ha! Don’t give them the pleasure! They don’t deserve it!
Usually, the people who bully others, make fun & tease others, are insecure themselves, and that’s what they need to do in order to feel good about themselves.
You just be proud of who you are.
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Dat is high school, people always want u 2 feel bad. If u are called names, shake it off, if u keep reacting 2 stuff like dat they will continue wit the attitude. Act like they’ve said nothing at all. It worked 4 me once!!
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1.The only person whose behavior we can control is our own.
2.All Total Behavior is chosen, but we only have direct control over the acting and thinking components. We can only control our feeling and physiology indirectly through how we choose to act and think.
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