why can’t they take a hint?

admin — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:28:56 +0000

so i live in Bangkok with family, when we were in Cambodia i met a younger man in his 30′s and his wife that is also in the 30′s, we got to know them because we had the same guest house area, so later on when we come back to our house in Bangkok at least 3 months later we receive call from them that they are heading to Bangkok for a bit then leaving for somewhere else, so what do we do? we invite them with open arms, when they arrived it was fine, i have to sleep on the couch because there is only a room per person (4), but yeah, i was fine with sleeping on a couch for 2 weeks while they wait to find a house somewhere in Taiwan, north Korea, or anywhere else, but this is the thing that really pisses me off, they have been here for 4 months now, they aren’t mean people but they don’t mention anything about leaving, they are dirty (they never do their own dishes and constantly leave bags around/dirty pieces of wrapping paper for meats) they never once cleaned up after themselves, i seen there room, it is disgusting, there is moldy food, at least 20 empty beer bottles, the half the bathroom has black mold on it due to it never being cleaned!, they are so dirty all the time. but the worst part is, the wife will always complain about small things WE don’t do! god damn audacity right there, things like "you should take the dog out" or "yeah, i don’t think you should do that" etc, I’ve had it with them, I’m sick and tired of cleaning up after them/letting them destroy the room they are living in, oh yeah! they are also hardcore atheists and they absolutely hate anything to do with god, I’m not very religious, but the things they say like "It’s completely stupid for anyone to believe in a invisible man that grants wishes!, what dumb fucks!" what should i do? the husband is nice, bit of a gaming nerd but nice, the wife is annoying me, shes still kinda sorta nice though, i tried giving them hints like "so are you guys planing anywhere to go?" the response was "no" what should i do that isn’t so harsh but will give the point to these impetuous people!
@ tiffany, this is one of the reasons it’s kind of hard to just go crazy on them (i might end up just cussing life crazy in their faces and go crazy on them) but still, I’m pretty passive when it comes to things like this, but they don’t own a house, and they don’t make much money, they remind me of teenagers that need to grow up. so i can’t just throw them on the streets, its confusing

Woah that is long… But dont worry I actually read it!:D If that was me I wouldve been like a bomb and went boom in their face if they keep on being that b*tchy. I would just say things like "Can you help me clean/wash the dishes I need to do something". Or just be straightfoward and say "Look. I know WE invited you here but it doesnt mean this is YOUR house. So at least clean up after yourselves and stop complaining about what I do cause its not like you can do it any better". And just tell them that they should start looking for a house and make up an excuse like its better to live in their own home or stuff like that.

Should I ‘Come Out’………..?

admin — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 04:01:40 +0000

Truth be told this is something that terrifies me, but yet it’s something that I really want to do… but I just don’t know…

In about October time last year, I came to terms with being bisexual. My sexuality is something that I’ve been confused about my entire life (well since I was about 10, I am now 16 and soon to be 17). I was so scared to tell anyone, that I even considered and tried to commit suicide – as I wasn’t strong enough. Lucky, I see my school counsellor… and I told her about how I was feeling (in terms of being suicidal). She helped me, and I became to trust her… so in turn, I told her the reason behind my suicidal actions.

She then suggested that I tell someone else – who is my age, so I told my friend at school… she really understood… but how ever she is a heavy Christian and believes that I can be changed (which is something I don’t want to do).

For about the next two weeks I felt ok… I wasn’t in a good mood, but I felt… just ok. However, at the time my school was putting on a play… I like acting and auditioned and got the main role, in the play there was another main role which was taken up by my friend’s (a different [female] friend) boyfriend… As we spent time together, practising our lines and just chatting… I stated to get feeling for him (truth be told I don’t know if it was lust or love… but I’m leaning to the one with the L-O-V-E).

About another week later, we were reading a story in our second language, the story was about self-concept and how some people don’t have it at all… I am one of these people – my self-concept is non-existent. So hearing about how I see myself got me depressed… again. It was a Friday and our last lesson we have free. On this Friday we went down to the field, as I was feeling depressed I just went to sit on my own. Some of my friends joined my (by the way all my friends are girls… except my best friend – I just don’t fit in with the guys + I find them all so immature). They asked me what was wrong… so I told them about the story and how it made me feel… and then I told them about how I felt (in terms of my sexual orientation). They were all rather shocked, but however also understood. So the conversation came around to the guys I liked… So I told them about the guy from the play… but that wasn’t a smart move as his girlfriend was one of the girls there… subsequently her and myself stopped talking… another thing I became depressed over… a few weeks after that, her boyfriend stopped talking to me as well… I was heartbroken, and turned to suicide yet again.

However, as you’ve probably guessed I haven’t killed myself… I just, couldn’t do it. I couldn’t drink the bleach, jump off the chair, keep my head in the water or get the knife through the skin on my wrists. So I’m a coward…

Weeks have passed since then… My parents now know about me… another thing I was dreading… and another thing I started to get depressed about. As I felt that my parents were homophobic… but they aren’t…

Now you might be wondering… ‘But you are already out’… but to myself I’m not. But this I what I’m dreading as my class – apart from the girls are 100% homophobic! You just do a flick of the wrist in a non-straight manner and you are condemned as someone gay… trust me I’ve been there. As I said before, the guys and I don’t get on well… They have very closed minds when it comes to what a guy should and shouldn’t like. ‘A guy must like sport, a guy must talk dirty language… a guy must talk about how he wants to “tap” that bitch’ It makes me sick! How can they be so unmannered, so horrible so… I want to use the word childish… but even a child is better mannered than these… these Apes, and that’s not even the best word.

As I said, in my class I’ve been condemned as the gay, the loser, the nerd… and because I’ve listened to it so much… I’m starting to believe it. Although I hate them so much… and I would like nothing more than to cut them up bit by bit slowly and painfully (by the way this is an exaggeration but it the best way to show how I feel toward them)… I do want to be accepted by them…

And although they hate my guts… they use me… as I’m the person in the class who is organized, I’m the one in the class who can talk to the teachers… I’m the one in class who can set up movies and things like that… And I do it… why because if I don’t… what will happen… I’ll be treated even worse.

I know I’ve gone a little off topic… but if you are going to answer my question, you needed to know the background. Should I ‘Come Out’? Should I tell them who I am… and screw the consequences…?

Just remember I have another two years to spend with these A-wholes.

I’ll be plain and simple: just come out. Nobody will ever accept you if you can’t even accept yourself.

What should I do for my hair?

admin — Sun, 15 Jan 2012 01:22:27 +0000

I have thick and short dirty blonde hair and red glasses. I am thinking about growing my hair until it’s long and dye it bleach blonde and get black glasses. What cute and easy hairstyle to take care of should I do? I am also thinking about getting side bangs. How could I make my hair look perfect and silky with no frizz? I am looking for a cute nerd look.

try Jessica Jung’s hairstyle..
read about it here

http://www.kungkang.com/2011/12/27/modeled-funny-hairstyle-jessica-jung.html

How do i get rid of demons?

admin — Sun, 08 Jan 2012 01:29:09 +0000

Okay this is the thing i recorded these voices and others was able to hear these demons. Maybe they are demons idk though if they are demons. I recorded these voices at http://attawapiskat.vidmeup.com. So if these are demons how do i get rid of them? Oh and i think i recorded satan too. Just go to my video siye and look for the one called ‘calls me dirty nerd’ also look for the one called’recorded a demon’. So how do i get rid of them. Please dobt say use jesus christ hes useless to me. Dont say pray thats just useless to me too. I tried them both nothing happens. Im very serious about this. Please tell how to get rid of these voices. Plus how do i know if they are demons im dealing with. I want good answers.

With even MORE, nastier demons, of course.

Why do people who aren’t that great themselves think that they can talk about someone else?

admin — Tue, 03 Jan 2012 01:29:47 +0000

Ok so i have this math class. And this girl is always giving me funny looks and im in college i don’t even know this girl at all, i don’t even know her name. She just sits next to me, that’s the only thing i know about her. Anyways every week my teacher calls people up to class to do a problem on the bored and today was my turn and i know i did the problem right because i checked it with my teacher before i went up to board but i have a hard time explaining how to do math problems because…i dunno there just hard to explain. Anyways when i was done explaining it to the class i went back to my chair and i heard her whisper to her friend, do you think that girl did the problem right because she doesn’t seem like she knows what she doing and then her friend was like no and they just laughed to each other. Even tho they had the same answers as me so obviously i did it right. And later on I heard her talking about how I need to fix my hair even tho i don’t even know what she was talking about because my hair looked fine that day. And she is the one with a fake tan and bleach blonde hair that doesn’t go with her face and skin ton at all and she literally looks like a nerd and im not just saying that because i don’t like her, i just always thought that about her but i didn’t say anything or talk about her cuz i really don’t care how she looks. But she always gives me these dirty looks and talks about me and i don’t even know her. She not that great or pretty herself so what make her think she can do that? I mean im not saying pretty people should do that either but i just don’t get it?

Some people are just like that. They have issues with themselves so they think that by criticizing other people, they’ll feel better about themselves. Don’t let her get to you. You have nothing to worry about because in the long run, not many people are going to like her.

Girls,does it anger you soooo much that a teen guy has acne?

admin — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 04:26:16 +0000

i have acne and girls give me angry and dirty looks on purpose and i do it to and they do it back and its just a cycle

but what i noticed is that these same shallow girls are nice to fat nerds with glasses

my face looks like an arrogant kind of douche naturally and im kind of buff but that doesn’t mean anything

No because for me it’s always about personality and for girls to fucking judge it on looks and acne is unreasonable and shallow. But you shouldn’t judge on fat guys either. They’re no different to you. In my opinion I don’t see the sense in that but hey it seems like society nowadays is twisted like that

How do i get rid of demons?

admin — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 06:09:20 +0000

Hey how do i know if they are demons im hearing?

admin — Tue, 20 Dec 2011 01:35:13 +0000

I had sex with my little sister’s best friend and got caught. How do I get her back?

admin — Tue, 13 Dec 2011 00:00:54 +0000

I’m 17 and a senior in high school. My sister is in 8th grade (junior high). Full disclosure: I’m kinda a nerd and not very socially active. I spend most of my time in my room, sleeping, playing video games, jerking and watching porn. I had a girlfriend once but I didn’t like her. She’s kinda emo and that’s not my type. We had sex a few times but I wasn’t really feeling it. Anyway my sister’s friend Amanda is very friendly and I really like her. She’s also very cute. She has a bit of meat on her but not fat, nice boobs for her age, and long blonde hair. One time when she came by my house to look for my sis, I kinda got her to sit on my lap. I guess she was curious about sex so we went to our room and did the positions like I watched online and gave her a good workout. That was back in August. Since then I try to arrange meetings with her when no one is else is at home or we do it in my car or sometimes I just call her and talk dirty. I even bought her some toys. It’s the best 2 months in my life. Anyway this evening, I was having sex with her in my room when my mom and sis suddenly showed up unannounced (my sis had piano lesson and shouldn’t had been back till an hour later). We got busted and completely humiliated by my mom. My sis doesn’t wanna talk to either of us and Amanda hasn’t responded to any of my text. Did I really blow it? What should I do to get her back?

oooo bimmer… Shes kinda young for u haha.. But id say giver her some time n if she hasnt gor back to u by the end of the week txt her n be like"srry for everything wish we coulda talked, but just know imalways here for ya" its short n sweet n wont make her feel pressured. U have to remeber she prolly scared cuz ur sister could go tell everyone In there school shes a slut so shes probaly focused on ur sister right now n is scared to talk to u this soon give it sone time… N remember shes young, n more confused then u are. She probaly very embarresed n scared

Why is this guy talking to me? Im a loser/ nerd!?

admin — Sun, 04 Dec 2011 05:03:17 +0000

I’m a nerd basically. I love pokemon, and world of warcraft, and i listen to techno basically. I have purple hair and my tounge is pierced (pokeball ^.^!!) I’m basically a nerd in my school. I have a lot of friends (not very close ones only about 2 close ones) and this JOCK guy is talking to me… in reading/ language arts. He sits right in front of me and he keeps FLIRTING with me. He steals my pencil bag and always plays with his finger (don’t take this dirty XD) and pretends its a person and walks it around on my desk. It’s immature, but its really cute. I noticed, a LOT of jocks are talking to me… it’s really weird. But their more fun than people make them be. I think their only talking to me cause im friends with David (a guy in ALL of the cliques at school basically. he’s super sweet :3) But anyways. Am i like interesting to him or something? I’m quiet at school…but with my friends im the one who makes everyone laugh until they die x3! I don’t really like him, but it seems like he likes me. He’s always joking around with his friend and goes, "hey Justin" and touches him o.o… but it’s a joke. he’s not gay…i think? xD i dunno. But anyways, why is he even TALKING to me??!?!

Btw we’re in 10th grade. im 14 (young for my grade.) hes 15.

A lot of guys like geeky girls