Ok, I was friends with this girl last year bc we were in the same classroom together. She was very quiet and always smiled and laughed (very kind to me). She was the type of girl who liked to help others and hated with people were fighting and would try to patch things up with people.
Well I found out over the summer that she had a cell so i texted her and said hey. She replied and said "Hey. Stop Texting me."
I was confused so i said "hey its me, remember?" and she began to cuss me out and talked about how i am ugly, geeky, a nerd, mother f, ect.
This is the first time I heard her swear. Then later she called me up and cussed me out over the phone for like 5 minutes. I felt terriable because I didn’t do anything.
I asked my other friends what to do and they all said to just ignore her. But that isn’t getting me anywhere! She keeps texting me and its been 5 months! Like I got one 5 minutes ago! I keep getting these hate messages and I want then to stop. She gives me dirty looks all day at school and lies about me to my friends… I want this to stop but I don’t want to get my parents involved… anyone have any ideas on why she could be doing this and how to stop it???
Oh and just a minute again my friend Brea told me that she has started to be harassed by the same girl!
Friendship takes time to develop & nurture…In the meantimes, just let the nature takes over its course!
I think you can call your phone company and have her number blocked. Look up their website and do some advanced searching to find out how. Or, get a new phone and don’t tell her.
I also have an ex-friend who now hates me. Listen to THIS story:
I met this girl in 7th grade and she was all nice to me then. She even took me shopping. I was invited to her pool party that summer. She was still nice on the first couple of days of 8th grade, but then, all of a sudden, I would say hi to her and she would tell me I was annoying and whatnot. She still hates me now. She crashed my Sweet 16 so she could see her friends, and we got into a big argument after (which I erased all evidence of). I removed her from my friends list and will soon block her on Facebook. I think I now know what the reason is.
She is the type of person who pretends to be your friend just so she can use you for her own aggrandizement. So, this new girl in 8th grade (who happens to be the twin of a really hot guy) became her instant friend, no doubt. When she found out I wasn’t a men magnet, she decided I was obviously not cool enough for her. Or, maybe he liked me and she’s jealous. I don’t know, but I’m pretty sure it has something to do with guys and her own advancement.
So this girl that you’re talking about, maybe this guy likes you that she likes?
Hope I helped and best of luck to you!
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Friendship takes time to develop & nurture…In the meantimes, just let the nature takes over its course!
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