okay, so i kinda feel like absolute crap right now.i have really low self-esteem, and lately its just been getting worse.i am a 15 year old girl and im short and thin and all of the other girls in my grade (10th) are beautiful and fully "matured". i have dirty blonde hair and blue eyes but im definitely not even close to being called beautiful..come to think of it, ive never been called beautiful before…. ever since my best friend of 8 years ditched me for someone prettier and more popular (which has been going on for about a year……LONG story), i feel like im not good enough for anything or anybody. my grades are getting worse too; im usually an A/B student but now my chemistry and geometry (worst subjects) grades are both dropping to Cs and i didn’t do too hot on finals.along with all that stuff, im probably considered somewhat of a "nerd" by now. i dont really think i am, just because someone doesn’t talk much during class and likes to read doesn’t mean they are a nerd. i want to improve on the inside and outside, but i don’t know how. if there anybody out there who knows what im going through, advice would be MUCH appreciated!
Woah, come down hunny 
Everyone’s beautiful- and don’t let anyone tell you different. The reason guys might not have called you beautiful is the fact that you are shy, and you said you don’t talk much. So I would go out and talk to people, forget the past. Also, the girls in your grade might be "Mature" but guys like skinny girls as well! Think about how lucky you are, mos of the girls are probably jealous of you because they have to spend like 2 hours on the treadmill to loose weight while you don’t ! Be proud of yourself As for your grades dropping, I’m thinking this is because you are focusing on other things, so I would get out and try as hard as you can ! School is for learning and becoming somebody, if you don’t suceed there you won’t suceed anywhere else ! Some tips on becoming more outgoing are that you could join a sports team, or clubs because you make more friends and you feel wanted so you become more outgoing I tried that and it totally worked! Good Luck, and I hope you the very best
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well just try to get a make over. try to me more girly it would be easier to tell you what to do if i saw a picture of you. wear makeup, cute clothes…..
i dont know what else to say i dont know how you look sorry
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girly pretty girl
wow. looks like you have alot on your mind. have you tried talking to someone?that’ss what i would do. now, i feel like that ( or i did) so what i did to help was…
- go shopping. buy new clothes, and try a new hairstyle or make up.
- loving yourself. soevery timee you see yourself in the mirror, say ‘ i am beautiful’ whether or not you say it out loud. then you will have confidence.
confidence is half of the problem. i’m still not very confident, and when im surrounded by ‘pretty’ people i always compare. now what i’m trying to do is say, ‘ okai well they’re pretty, but…’ and say something positive about yourself. maybe try an after school activity to make new friends. and your bff of nice years sounds really shallow. i’ve been called a nerd by my friends, i i admit. i am anerdd. i have braces, i like school and i read alot. but who are they to call me a nerd? like what i say is just f**k them. who cares what they think?
idon’tt talk during class either, lol.
and grades will improve if you have more confidence.
if you want to talk, email me:
daddysgurl780@yahoo.com
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your beautiful.
Woah, come down hunny
Everyone’s beautiful- and don’t let anyone tell you different. The reason guys might not have called you beautiful is the fact that you are shy, and you said you don’t talk much. So I would go out and talk to people, forget the past. Also, the girls in your grade might be "Mature" but guys like skinny girls as well! Think about how lucky you are, mos of the girls are probably jealous of you because they have to spend like 2 hours on the treadmill to loose weight while you don’t ! Be proud of yourself 
As for your grades dropping, I’m thinking this is because you are focusing on other things, so I would get out and try as hard as you can ! School is for learning and becoming somebody, if you don’t suceed there you won’t suceed anywhere else ! 
Some tips on becoming more outgoing are that you could join a sports team, or clubs because you make more friends and you feel wanted so you become more outgoing 
I tried that and it totally worked! Good Luck, and I hope you the very best 
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